Fellow Pilgrims,
Today, I’m sharing recommendations for a few of my current favorite things, including things I’ve been reading, wearing, and watching. I’d love to hear your recommendations. What are you reading, watching, doing, and loving right now?
Reading
I loved Sarah Perry’s The Essex Serpent and Melmoth, and her new novel Enlightenment is her best yet. The book wades deeply in theological themes (faith & science, providence, grace). The prose is gorgeous. Though love stories animate the plot, the book is ultimately about friendship and work. And a ghost astronomer. And dissenting baptists.
“Do you think you lose your faith, because your faith does not want you? That would be easy! My life would have been a happier one! But all these years there have been two fires in me and neither puts the other out!”
—Sarah Perry, Enlightenment
Lucy Caldwell’s short story collection Intimacies pulls us deeply into that title word. I loved the story rethinking Monica Lewinksy, and there are a number of stories which bring us into the exhausted, hazy vulnerability of new motherhood.
“In the underground car park, you sit with the children asleep as your husband takes the bags up, turns on the heating, makes a hot-water bottle for your son’s bed underneath the draughty window. These offerings, these devotions, banal and endless, our days going round and rushing from under us; the measure of our love.”
— Lucy Caldwell, Intimacies
Students in my D.Min cohort just read Catherine of Sienna. She’s amazing.
“The soul always fears until she arrives at true love.”
—Catherine of Sienna
Products making life a little better:
You need a budget (YNAB) is the best purchase I’ve made this year. I’d tried it once, years ago, but I’m now finding it life-changing. I can’t recommend it highly enough. Warning: YNAB makes it very, very hard for you to cheat yourself.
Arm & Hammer No Rinse Deodorizing Foam for Dogs. What can I say? It deodorizes the dogs. It smells like juniper. I’m so glad I found this stuff. The dogs don’t even mind getting rubbed down with it.
I’m probably late to the game on this sort of thing, but this charger grabs my phone and watch right by my bed and, unlike some other wireless chargers I’ve had, works reliably.
Wearing
Summer stripes from Amazon. I love this top. It’s a substantial knit, and the colors have stayed fast in the wash.
Giant 90s hair claw/clips. These are big enough to hold a lot of hair, and I always have one in right now.
Reading: substacks
I have often wondered about this paradox.
A helpful bit of writing encouragement.
responding to my post on God the Father:A year ago, at Church Blogmatics:
Most popular recent post at Church Blogmatics:
Listening & Watching
Friends, Beyoncé’s country album is a literary and musical masterpiece. From the first strains of “American Requiem,” I was blown away. She’s doing it all. Playing with genre. Commenting on race and Southernness and femininity and motherhood. Singing her heart out.
There’s a new season out of the very sweet Trying from Apple TV. Plus, 2 more shows I’ve been waiting for are back: The Bear and House of the Dragon.
Things you can’t buy or link to:
watching the finches knock cicada-snacks out of the trees
visiting my folks
walking through the summer with the slow unfolding of the hydrangeas
appreciating it when the kids leave the house together to play pickleball
dreaming of the beach
breathing
Again, I’d love to hear about your current favorite things. What’s bringing you life and joy as we welcome July?
Grace & peace,
BFJ
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Had a difficult June so I am welcoming July at a much gentler pace. I am enjoying..
*Listening to Break, Blow, Burn, and Make by E. Lily Yu
* 31 Days of Prayer with Living Proof Ministries
*Haus Labs by Lady Gaga lip oil
*Hoka Recovery slides